Oppression or bully have often heard in our ears. Not
only in Indonesia around the world were no such thing as repression. Perpetrators
and victims are not only adults but of elementary school children. Often
we hear it because of the association of oppression today are increasingly
present.
In the elementary school level often we hear of oppression. The
first with mocking names of parents who think their names are very antiquity
and eventually the name was so ridicule them. The second mock
parents work.
There are still cases of school violence makes us sad to hear it. His
case may be trivial, like starting from taunted each other, perspective-view,
to end up being bullying. What
is meant by bullying is an action which affects the victims a sense
intimidated, scared, and depressed because performed by actors use power
repeatedly.
Relation to bullying in schools, this can be done by individuals to
individuals, groups of individuals or groups to all groups. Not infrequently occur
from teacher to student. The goal was
to demonstrate power to others. Many
factors trigger on a person to commit acts of bullying.
It
could be due to internal factors the family, in this case is the relationship
of parents at home who has a type like cursing, comparing or physical violence
so that children often see and justify acts of violence to intimidate someone. Making
those individual behaviors, low self-esteem or grumpy. These
factors are often psychologically disturbed and the child will trigger to
intimidate someone.
In
addition to the parents, friends can also be a trigger. So
that was considered cool, kids chimed be doing violence. The
child usually has the property of showing off, seeking attention for his
actions that are considered to exist in the environment. The
goal was all his or intended person must submit and succumb to her. There
is a trigger factor that makes a child to become a party to bullying, one of
the biggest triggers is often watch or show the spectacle of violence.
To
deal with children who are oppressed or victims of violence needs to be taken
seriously. Wise
approach from heart to heart and knowing as it should we as parents should
behave towards our children. The
bottom line is the psychological effect that continued as they grew up. Because
the power of the mind that had haunted their behavior is very strong.
They divert kesebuah positive activities such as spiritual activities,
extracurricular is a smart solution. Where
we as parents wisely can continuously monitor and assist in ritun time when
they in golden growth period in order to grow flowers well, feel safe and
comfortable in their education to pursue.
The following cases which had horrendous bullying in the news and it is
very sad for the victims of this bullying.
Amanda Todd Estella on Youtube
Before Death
Amanda Todd (15 years) is also the most distressing examples of teenagers
who are victims of bullying at school. He
is a high school student in grade 10 Port Coquitlam, British Columbia, Canada. Over
the years, Amanda bullied in his school friends, either directly or via the
internet. Amanda
even had to change schools to escape oppression, but they still insulted him in
the internet media.
Last year, Amanda vent about his ordeal with menggunggah video to youtube. He
wrote word for word on a piece of paper so as to form a story. Shortly
thereafter, he was determined to end his life on October 10, 2012. Since then,
this video diunggahnya viral spread until the end of the year.
Just
as some states in the United States, the Government of Canada is also concerned
about this case. Amanda's
death was not in vain, because the Government of Canada then issued a law about
cyber-bullying, so as not to appear again similar events. Perpetrators,
including students, remain subject to severe criminal sanctions. Carol
Todd, Amanda's mother, even making NGO named Amanda Todd Trust, which is ready
to help the victims of bullying and actively engage in anti-bullying campaign.
Carlos Vigil Post Mail Suicide
On Twitter
If you see the face of Carlos Vigil (17 years) in the photo above,
certainly can feel how streaks of sadness imprinted. For
three years, adolescents who live in Valencia County, New Mexico, United
States, is mocked his friends just because of acne and wearing glasses. In fact, he is
considered a gay.
Virgil Ray, the father, was furious to hear his son treated like this,
prompting local authorities to issue regulations on criminal sanctions against
the perpetrators of bullying. On
July 13, 2013, because it really can not stand being bullied constantly, Carlos
wrote and posted a suicide note via Twitter account.
As shown in the above text, Carlos actually apologized to his friends the
years hurt him. "I
was the one who got no injustice in this world, and it's time for me to leave
this world," he wrote. Carlos
also asked his friends not to cry over the decision. He
even apologized for not being able to love someone, or make seseseorang love.
"My friends at school really. I
am a loser, strange, homo, and entirely unacceptable to others. I'm sorry
for not being able to make someone proud. I'm free now. Xoxo,
"said Carlos ended his letter.
When
her post the article, Ray Vigil actually being in North Carolina and talk to
the local parliament to discuss bill on anti-bullying. So read
his posts, Ray went straight home. Unfortunately, he was too late. Once in the
house, he saw his son was dead.
Izzi Dix Poetry Suicide
Before
the suicide, Izzi Dix (14 years) wrote a poem containing confidante when
in-bully classmates. After
he died, his poetry deliberately disseminated Gabbie DiXX, his mother, so that
no more people who practice bullying, because the impact is very bad for the
victim.
"Perhaps
many do not like this poem. But this
is what is in the mind of my daughter before committing early. I
want all teenagers are more thinking about the dangers of bullying before he
did it, "said Gabbie.
This
poem was written Izzi after he came to the party that made her friends, and she
got a very bad treatment. Here's
the poem:
They push me away. I stand still. My eyes glazed and absent.
They
start to ask questions, As to why I am there.
They
begin to tell me that nobody wants me there.
They
tell me to leave and that I am not wanted.
Not
there, not anywhere ...
Ryan
and Amber Writing Letter To Santa Claus
Ryan
and Amber are twins of different sexes and 8 years old. One
day, Ryan wrote a letter to Santa Claus (Santa Claus), about the ill-treatment
of his friends against Amber:
"Dear Santa. Mother
told me to send a letter for a list of requests on Christmas Day. I
would like toy cars and a helicopter, but I do not want it anymore. Children
in school continue to treat Amber badly, and it's not fair. I
have prayed to God, but it seems he is busy and I need your help. "
The
contents of this letter seems funny, but it is actually very touching. With
innocence, Ryan no longer want a variety of toys. He
actually provide tremendous empathy towards its twin, Amber, who is constantly
bullied at his school friends.
Amber
always mocked his friends as a little girl fat and hyperactivity. Of
the reading of this letter is not Santa Claus, but his own mother. Thanks
to a letter from Ryan, Mom immediately take action to save Amber from these
bullying practices, that is, move to another school.
Whitney Kropp dikerjain As
Queen Party
This story may be trivial, but try you (especially girls) are at the
Whitney Kropp. 16-year-old
girl's school in the Ogemaw Heights High School, one of the high school is
quite well known in the area of West Branch, Michigan, United States.
Towards held a big party at his school, his friends notified Whitney
crowned as queen of the party, was asked to dress up as pretty as possible so
that when the party later. Who would not be proud
to be chosen queen of the party? So, Whitney was dressed up. In
fact, she bought a new dress and shoes, and went to an expensive salon, so its
appearance looks beautiful like a royal princess.
When
the party was held, Whitney who already dress up this pretty calmly walked to
the middle of the field school. In that
instant, came the laughter of ridicule from his friends. Ah,
it turns out he was worked over his friends, especially from one of the gangs
in schools have often bullying practices against Whitney. This
case seems trivial then sticking in various media, especially online media, and
invite sympathy from various circles. Practice
repression rampant in schools these days is make all parties feel hot.
A lot of people are touched to see suffering Whitney. In
fact, more than 1,000 people came to his house, only to give support to the
Whitney. They
then make Facebok page to support Whitney Kropp. In
a short time, 44,000 people clicked Like on the Facebook page. Even
local governments helped to provide support, including replacing the entire
cost of purchasing the dress and shoes that have been issued Whitney, up to the
cost of care salon and dinner when the party was held.
Debbie Piscitella Arrested For Child
Advocate
This story is also an excess of the treatment of bullying in schools. McKenna
(13 years old) every day derided his school friends, with negative comments on
social media Facebook. Every
time status updates, friends often insulted in the media that are free to read
other people. Sometimes,
his friends talked about McKenna in their status.
Actually McKenna had complained the matter to the school, even reported to
the police with article also cyber-bullying, but never got a response. The mother,
Debbie Piscitella, eventually acting alone. When
the streets in a mall in St Petersburg, Florida, USA, Debbie directly
strangling 14-year-old teenager ABG, which is none other than her school
friends, and most industrious doing the bullying against McKenna.
No thanks to this treatment, the guy responsible was reported to the
police. Debbie
was detained, and this invites an incredible reaction among observers of
education, even government officials and senators. "As
soon see teenagers who often insulted my son, I was so emotional and the
reflexively strangle him," Debbie said defensively.
But because this case in the blow-up all-out by a number of social media,
such as the police continue giddy this case. After
bail, Debbie was released, and was writing a statement of regret was strangled
bullies against her. "I
really can not bear to see my daughter always blame myself, because every day
received negative comments that," said Debbie.
To eliminate bullying around the world, people should also participate, not
just the government, and not just people who care. Victims
also should dare to act for its own security. Anti-bullying
action can be initiated in everyday environments, including at school, at home,
and in the recreation area.
At school, what should be done the victims is to discuss them with their
parents as well as the courage to face the people who oppress them, not in a
way that rough and that could lead to new problems, but the true and full
control. Besides
parents and teachers should also help children to deal with their bullying
problem, and of course to educate them that revenge is not the right choice.
People should know that the repression is still happening in schools today.
The
school teacher may never witnessed firsthand the oppression, but this does not
stop these actions in the school environment. Same
thing with the parents, are you sure that your child is feeling safe and okay
at school?
Therefore, awareness of bullying must be improved! Begin
to act and speak to the children around you. Begin
to care and Meet with teachers and school administrators that the oppression
that often occur eventually be discontinued. Without
the courage to talk to anyone, the changes will not be obtained in this world. Let us stop the
oppression from now on! Stop
generation of young people who will continue to suffer because of the action of
bullying which is not yet fully under our control!
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